Did you just stare at my chest?

Really?

Ladies : Have you ever have that feeling that a guy is staring at your tits? Do you like it or did you find it offending? Is a 2 sec micro staring okay with you or even a 20 secs works for you? Like mentioned in the video, if you really hate people from staring/ looking, why not wear something else that cover your breast?

Gentlemen : Will you try to pull this off if any ladies ever confront you? If not, what will you say in your defense?

Me? I am very sure ladies out there know that I am totally a "breast man" and I am also very sure that the ladies know that I am looking at them. I think ladies who wish to share an enough amount should take it as a compliment that a guy is looking. Give a nice look but do not stare and give dirty look. That is my tips for the guys and if really confronted just give a simple "Looks like you caught me there, it's really nice and worth even a 2nd look you know? Let's take a picture together? No?"*

* Try it at your own risk, it is not like I have no pull off such replies or words before but result might defers from each individual.

Is it "Wrong" to get pregnant at the age of 15?

Straight to the point : As seen on STOMP. (Nope, I'm not a Stupid Stomper but I saw this via Twitter.)

I thought this is an interesting talking point for the blog. As usual, many funny comments on stomp and to sum it up there are a few points being brought up. 

1. She is underage and considered a minor. (Singapore law, under 16 sex is against the law)

2. Is there a need to put it on facebook since you are already breaking the law?

3. Is she doing this to seek attention?

4. Friends on facebook is asking her to keep the baby, is that "right or wrong". 

One thing as a time, like I always say, sex is good, underage sex is against the law(which makes it exciting for some - i guess) and getting caught for it is not joke. I guess it's a context issue cause some people will debate that "your grandmother from China" gave birth even at a younger age but I suppose it's a different thing since we are in Singapore and not China. I still recommend people to keep it till time is "right". No, I am not asking you to be a virgin until you get married. In fact I promote premarital sex. I suppose it's kinda of common for teenagers to have sex at such a age over at the states as well? I suppose you can do it after all but just do not get caught/pregnant. :x 

Putting the status on facebook is a little too much I guess? Than again, facebook is where your friends are and if all she want is to release the stress I think it is okay. On top of commenting about this as in she is a attention seeker, I also see how stress herself is going through all these shit. age of 15 and being a mum is no joke. I am not even surprise that her action after knowing this does not belongs to her mind anymore. So i suppose people can cut her some slack on her action on facebook. 

So the golden Question, to keep or not to keep. It is a life, no doubt. If you kill it, it is a life you are wasting but think again, if you force your way through and let this baby live on, force a marriage and get divorce there after, it is 3 lives we are wasting and haunting. Call me negative, I call myself practical, this is common and I have seen it myself and not just once but rather quite a few times around me. "Shotgun" marriage can hardly last and people who are in bad situation of a marriage who uses a child to hold the marriage did not work out half the time either. Than again, there is always two sides of the coin and there are always multiple outcome on whichever path she is taking. I just wish her good luck on her choice.

Anyway, if you are interested in the full article : link

Mr.Smith, bang bang is good, baby baby at 15 is NO good.

How to explain sex to kids?

This has always been an issue isn't it? Especially when kids start to think about the "source" of where they come from. In Singapore, I believe that the answer the kids like me from the 80s get crappy answers like "You will find out when you grow up", "We picked you up from the trash bin.", "A pelican bird drop you off at our doorstep." and even shit like "Cause daddy loves mummy so we have baby.". If only pelican birds drop babies at the doorstep and I believe Singapore will not have this whole low birth rate shit.

Anyway I stumble upon a very cute animation online that MIGHT help.

Ok, fine. Still a little too much for kids but at least it's kinda cute right? No ? 

Mr.Smith, why headache about sexducation? Just send them to me or my blog will do.