The importance of premarital sex.

Nope, this post ain't the desperate move of Stinkapore gahment's trying to raise of birth rate. ( Not Yet At Least). I believe it was a popular debate back in the 80s IF it is yes or no to premarital sex and back then it was more conservative and it was never really talked about. In fact till the 90s people are still trying to look like a virgin. I am talking in the context of Singapore of course. I have no idea how the game was played back then some where else in the world.

Anyway the year is now 2011 and we have movies and shows or what on "show casing" that premarital sex is very common. I am talking about premarital sex and not casual sex here. I am not promoting casual sex and even if you think I am, please think about it that I am promoting safe sex at the same time. (Since when sex comes in so many forms right? Safe, Protected, Casual and what not.)

Do you still have friends who believe that sex(or rather love making for those who believe) should only happen with 1 person and after marriage? We all know the benefits of having sex such as curing headache (that's why i call myself a doctor sometimes) or better skin and burnt calories but what if you do not ? I am saying this from a perspective that sex plays a very big part in marriage. Yeah I love commitment too at the same time I am loving sex.

If you do not have sex before marriage -

1) what if it's because your hubby ain't really into woman and you are just a "beard" ? heard of the movie barebroke back blow jobmountain?

2) what if your sex drives has a big difference ? Hubby only wants sex once a month and wife wants it every other 2 days ?

3) what if your sexual preference is different? He wants to do that doggie while she is into cowboy.

4) what if many years down the road and a "sales person" comes in and promote herself that it's sad for a man to die as a "one-gina"

5) What if you hubby actually has a 2 inch long( not too sure if long is the right word) dick?

6) What if your gf's tits are nothing but bra pads?

7) WHAT IF YOUR GF WERE A MAN !!??

No doubt the above are what ifs but the fact that there are couple who wants to stay together before getting married is simply to eliminate as much what ifs as possible. What if he snores, what if he has bad breath, what if he doesn't put the toilet cover back. Marriage is a once in a life time commitment ( supposed to be) thus it's important to make sure that he/she is all you ever wanted in as many ways as possible. All these might sound like a joke to you (because it's coming from me) but the facts can't be denied that many bad marriage starts from bad sex and many good and successful marriage's credits goes to sex and couples being physically close. SEX plays a big part about marriage.

I don't think anyone need the "magazine" to be sealed before purchasing it these days. Weight the importance of virginity over all the above factors and the pros of having sex. And what's more, sex is AWESOME !

And just in case you do not get point 7. Here's an epic video.




And if you still don't get it. @eisen sums it all in a sentence over his tweet

"It's like test-driving a car before you buy it."

Will you have sex already