No Strings Attached

You want some?

This is not a new movie and neither is it a new concept.  Some call it "fuck buddy" which is a lil more cruel and some choose to call it friends with benefit. Whichever way it is the basic logic of it is simple. The way of their friendship is true physical bond. As how Sex and the City look at it, fuck buddy is a very special kind of friend you call (or text, or tweet, or write on their wall, whatsapp, email whichever way u like) when you want to have sex. It comes in faster than pizza hut sometime. ( I mean the delivery time not the cum timing) And the only purpose of this friend is sex. You can't date him, you can't hangout and you can't even have dinner or breakfast. The simplest reason is that you are not allowed to know that person in depth.

For many reasons in fact, that person might be stupid or share different concept with you which might turn you off or maybe that person might be so awesome and you might just fall in love with him/her which breaks all the rule of the game. 

No doubt this is a very old concept of sex but here comes the questions, how many of you tried it? How many of you guys pulled it off successfully ?  I am not surprise as I have friends who are like this and practice this kinda r/s. ( too bad not with me, they dunno what they are missing. :X) But how many of you guys can seriously not fall in love with the other person you are fucking or let's not say love, it might be too huge a word. Let's use the word - possession instead. How many of you are able to fuck this person and still see him/her having something with another person ? I am not sure how that feels but I can imagine it ain't that good isn't it? 

I suppose this is the trade off for "dial-a-sex". No need too much talking and it's just a call away. Even your own wife/hubby might not be that flexible when it comes to giving. One might be tired, not in the mood, having a headache or just question you stupid questions like " do you love me or just my body and sex?"  I suppose it's a you win some and you lost some feeling isn't it?

I really like how the movie was showing that scene where Ashton Kutcher was trying to make out with the other girl and it was just weird? It's like trying to tell us that changing a sex partner and finding one with the same sexual preference and practice ain't really as beautiful as it always seems and it's in fact just as tough as finding someone you love. 

Remember one of my older post about re-writing sex?  I think this situation will be a better situation than just having a fuck buddy actually, cause it's a community thing. :x 

To conclude this, I felt that it ain't all bad as long as it's between 2 person. Not so much of the emotion part but more of the safety and health part.(Sex is good, but safe sex is better.) As long as both are satisfied with their own agenda and needs and nobody get's harm during the process(unless you are into SM.) I think peer pressure or morale ethic doesn't really play too big a part for me. Nobody has the power to say that friend's with benefit is wrong. It's just friends you meet for different things right? Just like how everyone has their favorite beer kaki, mahjong kaki or even clubbing kaki. That's benefits too right?  

So far I've only heard from around 2-3 couple of friends who practice this and somehow emotion always comes in at the end of it and some how it just stops somewhere with not too good an ending. Anyone out there has a very good and healthy and long running Fuck Buddy R/S who is able to share with me more on this? Or maybe from an ONS to FB and than ended up marrying ? 

Hope to hear from you guys ! : ) 

Mr.Smith, just a phone call away. :X