How far will women go ?

I was going through some older magazines because of certain projects I am doing and I notice a very interesting pattern.

I was going through these females magazine and the headlines which we already know is more about sex than anything else.( And woman call us man the pervert) But the really interesting part is that man years ago the topic goes things like " How to give him mind blowing sex" , " How to keep your man by you", " What is his favorite position" compared to today's "How to get O" , "How to have the best sex".

Looking at these topics I see 1 of the many reason why we have lower birth rate and even lower marriage rate. It used to me about him or us but now it's more about "ME" ( as a woman). How does this work ? Back than woman think about their man as someone important in their life and they will actually think about how to keep them by their side where else woman these day goes by "He's not that into me" if he does not do etc. etc. - Girl Power.

Woman are much stronger in many ways these days. Be it financially, physically, thoughts or even sexually. In a survive done(in my own world), woman from yester-year satisfy man in anyway they want because they are their woman and it's their job to satisfy them so they will not go and find other woman. Woman these days believe that sex is their "card" and if you ain't giving me what I want baby, you ain't coming in my baby.

I am not advocating any MCP teaching here but I believe media is. Look at how porn are made, considering the fact that most porn maker are male and so are the audience. It always goes in the way that the men like it, woman coming in and be all agressive pushing you down onto the bed and start blowing you. This give men the ideal sexnario and men take that as a bench mark of "how sex should be". But is it how it is? Or is it a "dear, can we have sex today?" and the wife go " sorry I am busy or I am having a headache tonight" and there is no debate about it, cause if you force it, your wife too can charge you for rape. (Role play rape is not considered.)

Men are animal of ego, men needs the pride to keep them alive.(yes, even if you deny, it's true for most men. at least those man enough ones). Women give it to them in the older days but not so not. The funny thing is that women are totally not impressed by weak man, man who are in less power, less confidence and indecisive but on the other hand women these days are projecting a stronger image too. A very confusing and contradicting relationship isn't it?

So with these very contradicting position, ( not physical position) how can men and women find a compromising position to get whoever on top? Men wanting the control and pride while women might not want to give in cause "if you love me, you do not force me to do things I do not like". So what is the answer to many Singaporean guys? Turning their heads(yes, both their heads) to women from a lower status society(sorry can't find a better word but no offense) such as Thailand. It's very popular these days isn't it? You see many of your male friend visiting Thai pub and suddenly falling into the Thai culture and loving Tom Yum. Why? They treat you men like king. Which ever position or entry you name it they do it.( Or at least from what I heard).

Many gives the dirty stare about man looking for a wife who can cook and do house hold chore as it seems more like one is looking for a maid but having a Thai gf is even better. They cook, clean, wash, blow and many more ! No doubt I am doing a very cruel generalization here and I am sure there are true across border international relationship too.

So how far will a local women go these days to keep their men by them? With what was mentioned and observed above, does it conclude that women with more power takes less shit and compromise less which leads to higher chance of failure rate in relationship?

Mr.Smith, No Power No Talk ? - NPNT