It is interesting where this blog is moving towards. Although I get some negative feedback once in awhile saying that my post ain't up to standard and not informative enough but hey ! All feedbacks are good feedbacks. At least I know there are still people reading it right?
I actually got a fan post this time round asking if I will "do her" the pleasure and allow the post to be on my blog ! Why not? The pleasure is mine !! ( IT'S FAN MAIL !! HOW COOL IS THAT !! )
So here we go..
Sex does not necessarily lead to emotional attachment.
- by adriannamay
People have sex for various reasons - to experience carnal pleasures, to feel connected to their partner, to relief sexual tension, to reproduce, or just because.
There are also many different types of sex - from one-night stands, to flings, to love making. The reason people have sex determines the type of sex they have and whether they form an emotional attachment with their partner.
Emotional attachment does not always equate to the feeling of like or love towards a partner. A person can feel emotionally attached when they feel concern, liking, etc. for another and might feel a sense of loss if the relationship ended. Most of us have friends, mentors, pets, objects we feel emotionally attached to.
There are two aspects of sex, the physical and the emotional. More often that not, the reasons why we have sex determines the type of sex we have, which in turn determines whether or not we form an emotional bond with our partner.
A dipstick survey also agreed that men and women both could have sex without getting emotionally attached. Most agree that it still goes back to the reason why we have sex.
Cindy Meston and David Buss of the psychology department at the University of Texas at Austin studied why humans have sex. The top reasons were mostly physical, and not emotional.
They included:
• I was attracted to the other person
• I wanted to experience physical pleasure
• It feels good
• I was horny
• It is fun
• I was sexually aroused and wanted release
• I wanted to achieve an orgasm
• I wanted the pure pleasure
• I wanted to please my partner
• I wanted to show my affection for the person
The sexual revolution in the 1960s, saw Americans becoming more open about casual sex. Sex is no longer just a thing between married couples. They became more aware of their sexuality and began to experiment.
The introduction of birth control methods and the women’s liberation movements further empowered women who started taking charge of their sexuality.
These practices slowly spread throughout the world and we see more people indulging in short-term sexual acts just for physical gratification.
One-night stands, booty calls, flings, and friends with benefits became much more common. People who indulge in these have little or no emotional attachment with their partners. They are able to detach the physical and emotional aspects of sex and do it just because.
Even if it does happen, emotional attachment is not a bad thing in and of itself. The problem only happens when the attachment is so strong, it interferes with a person’s ability to function normally.
The key is knowing when and where to draw the line.
So what's your thoughts ladies and gentlemen ? My say ? Relax and get laid people !!
P.S : Always do it with protection hor ~~
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