No - i don't want sex.. Yes - I want sex..

Very soon after my 1st sex-post, there is a troubled reader writing in for some help.

let's call him [X]..

[X]'s ex gf is coming back from overseas and even before she is back she start to get in touch with him , talking on phone and even sms-es.. she stated her stand clear say " i am single and wanna come back for some FUN "

So [X]'s concern : AM I GOING TO HAVE SEX??
: What if her FUN is not the kind of fun he is thinking?
: what if she really want den he didnt get the hint??

isn't this a common worry a guy have??

When i know when a woman want sex and when a woman don't want

There are times when the woman are expecting more den just dinner..
But there are times they dun even want the dinner..
but of course i don't expect you to ask " are we going to have sex tonight?"
or " ASGM ?? "

i will classified woman's feeling about sex before going for a date..

1) I want sex tonight
2) I Might want sex tonight
3) i don't think i wanna have sex with him tonite..

but ultimately, the ball is always in the guy's court..

why?

If she is horny - u can always spoils it and turn her off..
If she is not horny - u can turn her on and you SCORES!!!

so.....

If you ask me there are a few important things you need to do,

" Observe , Listen , Hint "

Observe things she do/ she wear :

If a woman want to mate at that night, she will definitely be better dress, clean, shaved, sexy. but of course, woman always want herself to be pretty so dun get the wrong hint, this part is the part you have to decide..

How close physically she is during the date..

Listen to the thing she say

I think tonight is so beautiful.. i don't feel like going home so early

Is there anywhere else we can go?

Hint

In fact this is the most important part..

like pointed out just now, the ball is always in the guys court..

use words to hint her..

set verbal trap

example : if u guys are drinking..

" don't drink so much la.. later u drunk i dunno where u stay "

Expect ans like - " den i go ur house " SCORE!!!

or

ans like - " no la.. i not so easy drunk " more hint needed

best is still to send her home.. send until the doorstep..

if she say - " wanna come in for a drink? " SCORE!!!

if she nv.. den u ask - " can i use ur toilet.. or u ask can i get a drink "

if can den u are almost there..

But ultimately , follow the flow.. you have it.. you have it.. dun push it..

be a gentlemen..

but of course.. there are products in the market which can help..

- Spanish Fly!!!

I'm not too sure if this article is useful.. cause woman comes in many different kind.. and out of the many kind they will change their opinion towards things base on so many factors..



Smith, Helping [X]